We have heard the horror stories of parents that are over vigilant. These are parents that are driving the Black Hawk Helicopters. They are invasive, micro managers that have the attitude of entitlement because they are paying the tuition.

Colleges steer clear of this kind of parent which can hurt the student. The student benefits from a support system. Many students are coming from unstable homes. There is also a record number of students with mental health issues. Often students are feeling overwhelmed with needs that surpass what the college can provide.
I urge you to be involved but not overly involved. As a parent, maintain your connection so you will be aware of their progress and struggles. You will be there to offer them guidance and to suggest resources as needed. You become your child’s mentor.

Parents may need to intervene in a true crisis but know when to step aside and allow your student to work through their issues. This is part of the college experience and there is a safety net of sorts still in place. Now is when the learning needs to happen.
Parenting is a true art. And like all art, it is appreciated over time…